5 signs he may be cheating on you!

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It's not just love that's in the air and everywhere you look around - infidelity is too. So much so, there are countless sites designed purely to facilitate people's extra-marital shenanigans. One such site is the controversial Seeking Arrangement, which promises to match wealthy 'sugar daddies' to significantly younger 'sugar babies' and is utilised by university students to help with the crippling amount of debt secondary education entails. JeanMarie is one of SeekingArrangement's most popular mistresses, who, owing to her experience, knows exactly how a cheater behaves. Speaking to Elite Daily, she issued a pretty bleak warning to all women, saying, "we are ALL getting lied to." On the minor plus-side, she also reveals which giveaway signs tell you your man is cheating and shares what to look out for.

1. He makes massive cash withdrawals.
Affairs aren't cheap, and credit and debit card transactions, which show up on your statement, are basically a huge, flashing sign saying, "I am a love rat." A cheater's way around this, according to JeanMarie, is to use cash only. That way, there are no damning mentions of fancy restaurants and lingerie shops to explain to your other half.

2. He loses interest in sex.
If your partner seems to have lost interest and enthusiasm in this area, JeanMarie has a blunt warning.
"He's getting it elsewhere."
How you can find out, is by kissing them, apparently. Other advice includes, "Give him a massage, make his favourite meal and see if those actions make any change.
"If he has sex with you, then theres still hope. If not, he might not be attracted to you anymore."
Though, in fairness, you might not feel like making the effort - or rewarding his behaviour.

3. He checks his phone a lot.
It's not just the phone checking which should trigger alarm bells - but if he's secretive with it too. Suddenly putting a lock on his phone or pass code, and hiding the screen from you when he uses it are indicative of someone who's playing away. Especially if this behaviour is a new thing.
If you want to go one further, JeanMarie says:
"My favourite thing to do is search the computer history and see what he’s been looking at.
"Another method I tend to enjoy is making a profile on Instagram or Facebook, pretending to be that person, and see if he replies or tries to make plans.
"Make sure the girl’s photo is really hot," she adds.
But also bear in mind, "it's best to ask a girlfriend so you have her permission to use her intellectual property and photos)."

4. He makes changes to his appearance.
Of course, it's entirely possible your partner may just feel like having a bit of re-vamp. JeanMarie, on the other hand, warns it could be cause for concern.
"Men are simple," she explains. "Once they feel they 'have you,' they will stop impressing you and start impressing someone else."

5. He suddenly needs to work all the time.
This is an oldie but a goodie. Work trips and late nights in the office are such a popular foil for cheaters, they've achieved cliché status. However JeanMarie asserts that any changes to his usual work routine could very well be a sign he's being unfaithful.

Source: Mirror